Financial Services Consultant
Story
I didn’t grow up in a wealthy family.
We always had enough to survive, but never quite enough to be comfortable. Growing up, I wore hand-me-downs, counted coins carefully, and chose the cheapest options at hawker centres, sometimes skipping a drink just to save a little more. And yet, I was genuinely happy. I understood that my parents were doing their very best, and the last thing I ever wanted was to make things harder for them.
The weight of our circumstances became clearer when my sister was ready for university. She was hardworking and academically strong, but due to the racial quota system, she could not secure a place at a government university. My parents had no choice but to spend RM300,000 on her private education. That moment stayed with me. We had enough to survive, but not enough to have choices.
When my own turn came, I knew that pursuing my dream of studying overseas would place an enormous burden on my family. My father had worked his whole life to own our home, a legacy he built from nothing and was deeply proud of. I could not ask my parents to give that up for me. So I chose to find my own way.
I was fortunate to discover the ASEAN scholarship, and from that point on, I fought for every opportunity on my own terms. From the age of 16, I have never taken a single cent from my parents. I worked hard, pushed through every challenge, and built my path forward with my own hands.
I am proud of that journey. But it also taught me something important: it should not always have to be this hard. I was lucky. Not everyone who is equally determined and capable gets the same chance.
That realisation is what led me to financial advisory. I want to help families build choices, not just for themselves, but for their children and the generations that follow. I want to help people avoid the painful position of having to choose between survival and their children’s dreams. Financial planning, to me, is not about products or policies. It is about giving families the confidence to say, “We are ready. Go after what you want. We have got your back.”
I have walked the uphill road, and I know what it feels like to navigate it alone. I want to be the advisor I wish my family had access to when we were facing those difficult decisions together.
I believe that with early planning, sound strategy, and the right support, we can break cycles that have held families back for generations and build a future where more people are not just surviving, but truly thriving.
That is why I do what I do. And that is why it matters to me, deeply.
Tan Jue Ming
Financial Services Consultant
Story
I didn’t grow up in a wealthy family.
We always had enough to survive, but never quite enough to be comfortable. Growing up, I wore hand-me-downs, counted coins carefully, and chose the cheapest options at hawker centres, sometimes skipping a drink just to save a little more. And yet, I was genuinely happy. I understood that my parents were doing their very best, and the last thing I ever wanted was to make things harder for them.
The weight of our circumstances became clearer when my sister was ready for university. She was hardworking and academically strong, but due to the racial quota system, she could not secure a place at a government university. My parents had no choice but to spend RM300,000 on her private education. That moment stayed with me. We had enough to survive, but not enough to have choices.
When my own turn came, I knew that pursuing my dream of studying overseas would place an enormous burden on my family. My father had worked his whole life to own our home, a legacy he built from nothing and was deeply proud of. I could not ask my parents to give that up for me. So I chose to find my own way.
I was fortunate to discover the ASEAN scholarship, and from that point on, I fought for every opportunity on my own terms. From the age of 16, I have never taken a single cent from my parents. I worked hard, pushed through every challenge, and built my path forward with my own hands.
I am proud of that journey. But it also taught me something important: it should not always have to be this hard. I was lucky. Not everyone who is equally determined and capable gets the same chance.
That realisation is what led me to financial advisory. I want to help families build choices, not just for themselves, but for their children and the generations that follow. I want to help people avoid the painful position of having to choose between survival and their children’s dreams. Financial planning, to me, is not about products or policies. It is about giving families the confidence to say, “We are ready. Go after what you want. We have got your back.”
I have walked the uphill road, and I know what it feels like to navigate it alone. I want to be the advisor I wish my family had access to when we were facing those difficult decisions together.
I believe that with early planning, sound strategy, and the right support, we can break cycles that have held families back for generations and build a future where more people are not just surviving, but truly thriving.
That is why I do what I do. And that is why it matters to me, deeply.
